When Traditional TherapyIsn't Working
You've tried everything. Counsellors, psychologists, family therapy. Your teen either won't engage or the strategies just don't stick. We understand. And we have a different way.
What Parents Tell Us
Every Parent's Biggest Fears
These are the concerns we hear most often from parents. Here's how Shake's approach specifically addresses each one.
"My teen won't talk to traditional therapists"
How Shake Helps:
Side-by-side approach while walking or playing basketball removes the confrontational feeling
"They shut down when we try to help"
How Shake Helps:
We meet them in their world - sports, gaming, activities they love
"Previous therapy didn't work"
How Shake Helps:
Evidence-based DBT and ACT delivered through movement and real-world application
"They're losing hope and motivation"
How Shake Helps:
Strength-based approach that builds confidence through achievable wins
"Family relationships are breaking down"
How Shake Helps:
Family sessions that rebuild connection and improve communication
"I don't know how to support them"
How Shake Helps:
Parent guidance sessions and practical strategies for home
Why Shake Works When Others Don't
Side-by-side comparison of traditional approaches versus the Shake method
Traditional Approach
The Shake Way
Why It Matters
What to Expect as a Parent
A realistic timeline of what happens when your teen starts with Shake - and what you'll experience along the way
Week 1
First Contact
Free consultation to understand your family's unique situation
Your Experience:
No pressure, just honest conversation about what you're experiencing
Weeks 2-4
Building Trust
Your teen starts sessions focused on activities they enjoy
Your Experience:
You'll notice them actually looking forward to appointments
Months 2-3
Skill Development
Learning practical emotional regulation through movement
Your Experience:
Small changes at home - less explosive reactions, better communication
Month 3+
Family Integration
Family sessions to rebuild relationships and improve dynamics
Your Experience:
Feeling equipped with strategies that actually work
6+ Months
Independence
Your teen using skills independently in real-world situations
Your Experience:
Confidence in their ability to handle life's challenges
Changes You'll Actually Notice
These are the improvements parents consistently report after their teen works with our team
Improved Family Communication
Less arguing, more understanding
Better School Engagement
Attendance and participation improvements
Emotional Regulation
Fewer meltdowns and explosive reactions
Social Connections
Building healthy peer relationships
Future Orientation
Hope and plans for their future
Self-Advocacy
Ability to express needs appropriately
What Other Parents Say
Honest experiences from parents who've walked this journey with Shake
"The staff have given my son the most amazing support, tools and guidance to confidently navigate the challenging times along with the good fun times teenage life brings. I could go on and on but there isn't enough words to express my gratitude as a parent of a teenage boy transitioning into manhood."
— Charlotte Lloyd
Teenage boy transitioning into manhood
Amazing support and guidance for confident navigation of challenges
"My son absolutely LOVES Shake and has built an amazing friendship with Will. The approach and connection from the shake team with the kids is phenomenal. Can't thank the team enough for the work they do with our kids!"
— Marney Mcrandall & Jodie Vagg
Challenging teenage boys needing connection
Amazing friendships built and phenomenal connection with team
"We have been using Shake Counselling for a few years now. Shake Counselling have been a wonderful resource that has supported myself and my youngest son through some extremely difficult circumstances. I am tremendously grateful for the support Shake Counselling has given us."
— Lara Dormain
Extremely difficult family circumstances over multiple years
Wonderful ongoing support through difficult circumstances
Ready to Try Something Different?
If you're tired of approaches that don't work, if your teen is resistant to traditional therapy, or if you just know there has to be a better way - you're right. There is.
During your consultation, we'll listen to your family's unique situation, answer your questions, and explain exactly how our approach could help your teen. No pressure, no sales pitch - just honest conversation about what you're experiencing.